Scripture: Ecclesiastes 9:9 (NIV): “Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God has given you under the sun—all your meaningless days. For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.”

John and Emily, fresh from their wedding vows, set out on a journey that would mark the start of their shared life.  As they set off for a charming coastal city, their hearts were brimming with love and excitement.  The allure of the gleaming sea and nature’s soothing embrace drew them in.  Their destination was a lovely hotel nestled along the coast, where the symphony of waves would soothe their souls.

Their faces were filled with anticipation as they walked hand in hand. The ocean breeze seemed to whisper tales of love and unity. The sun dipped toward the horizon, creating a kaleidoscope of warm hues across the sky.   It was a perfect setting for their love story.

They found themselves wrapped in each other’s arms under the starlit sky.  They were eager to explore not only the beauty of their surroundings but also the uncharted depths of their own hearts. In those precious moments, amidst the peaceful rhythm of the waves, John and Emily began to understand the profoundness of the commitment they had made to one another.

Their honeymoon became more than just a physical journey; it became a journey of the heart. It was time to peel back the layers that make each of them unique and treasured. The coastal city, with its symphony of nature and the endless sea, was the ideal setting for a love story that was just getting started.

The Importance of a Honeymoon

A honeymoon, more than just a vacation, holds profound significance in the lives of newlyweds. It’s a time of secluded togetherness where you lay the groundwork for the rest of your journey as a couple. While the Bible does not specifically mention honeymoons, it does provide guidance on cherishing and nurturing the marital bond.

Our key verse, Ecclesiastes 9:9, reminds us to enjoy life with the person we love. This verse emphasizes the beauty of intimacy, not only physically but also emotionally and spiritually.

Lilly Blomquist, in her article titled “Why a Honeymoon Can Benefit Your Relationship,” captures the essence of the honeymoon experience through a quote by Figs O’Sullivan. Figs O’Sullivan aptly expresses,  

“The honeymoon is a meaningful and important ritual to strengthen the bond between newlyweds, where they can create lasting memories together.”

Figs O’Sullivan

How to Prioritize Intimacy and Connection During a Honeymoon

Time Apart and Alone:

Set aside intentional time for just the two of you. Use this time to learn about each other’s ideas, dreams, and passions. Disconnect from the stresses of daily life and create a space where you can truly connect. This can be done by going on romantic walks, having deep conversations, or engaging in activities that both of you enjoy. Additionally, make sure to prioritize physical intimacy by creating a comfortable and intimate environment where you can freely express your love for each other. 

Open Communication:

Just as prayer and meditation are essential components of your honeymoon, commit to open communication. Share your feelings, desires, and fears with each other. This vulnerability fosters deeper understanding and empathy. It is important to actively listen to your partner and validate their emotions, as this will strengthen the bond between you. Remember to approach difficult conversations with patience and understanding, allowing for compromise and growth within your relationship. 

Physical Intimacy:

The Scriptures in Proverbs 5:15–19 and Songs of Solomon 4:1–5 celebrate the beauty of marital intimacy. Physical connection is a gift from God to strengthen your bond. Approach it with love, respect, and a desire to learn and grow together. Remember that physical intimacy is not just about the act itself but also about the emotional connection it fosters. Take the time to communicate your desires and boundaries openly and honestly, ensuring that both you and your partner feel comfortable and respected. Additionally, prioritize consent and mutual pleasure, creating a safe and enjoyable space for both of you to explore and deepen your physical connection. 

Cultivate Spiritual Togetherness:

Beyond the physical and emotional connection, nurture your spiritual togetherness. Praying together and meditating on God’s word can deepen your connection with each other and with God.

Taken Together

Honeymoon is a season that reflects the divine intention behind marriage—a union of two souls, entwined by love and guided by God’s grace. Though the concept may not be spelled out in the Bible, its essence is deeply rooted in the Scriptures. Your marriage, like a garden, requires intentional care, attention, and time to flourish.

As you embark on this sacred journey, keep in mind that your honeymoon is more than just a vacation; it is the start of a lifelong adventure into the depths of love, companionship, and faith. Embrace this season with gratitude and carry its lessons of intimacy, communication, and spiritual togetherness into the next chapters of your marriage that lie ahead.

How Long Is a Honeymoon in the Bible?

The Bible does not explicitly mention the term “honeymoon” or its duration, but it does mention the concept of a honeymoon, which typically refers to the period immediately following a wedding where newlyweds spend time together as a couple. Two passages suggest that a honeymoon could be anywhere from one week to one year. In Deuteronomy 24:5, a man is free at home one year after taking a new wife, and in Genesis 29:27-30, Jacob worked for Laban for seven years before marrying his daughter Rachel. Despite not explicitly mentioning a honeymoon, it is a time-honored tradition that can be a meaningful and enjoyable experience for couples.